Wow, I didn’t think I would need to write this blog myself, but apparently, I do as I couldn’t find any relevant blogs to link to.
As leaders of a business or a team, you can easily be forgotten by your employees/team members and by yourself. We can focus so much on looking after our employees, team members, suppliers, and customers that we forget about ourselves. But where would your customers and employees be if you aren’t there to steer the ship? Where would the business you’re working so hard to nurture be if you aren’t there? Yes, an organisation can survive in the very short term without its leaders, but ultimately every business needs effective senior management in order to thrive.
There is a lot of focus on workplace wellbeing and looking after employees, but we should not overlook the leaders when implementing these programmes. The wellbeing program should be led from the front; look after number one and lead by example (I love that phrase ‘Lead by Example’; I think it is very powerful and can achieve so much). For example, ensuring everyone else takes their holiday entitlement is great – it’s important that employees relax and recharge – but leaders also need that; sacrificing yourself once in a while is ok but continually sacrificing yourself for your team becomes damaging and unproductive. You can’t be an effective leader and decision maker if you are tired and stressed.
People talk about pressure from above, but pressure also comes from below and from within. Leaders have a whole team of people looking to them for direction and a pathway to achieve; it is the leader who is at the front carving those ways, constantly working away for others to follow. Leaders bear a heavy burden of responsibility, as they know that if they fail, the people below them will also fail.
Pressure and constantly putting others first can wear any leader down, and can lead to depression and ill health. So although taking time for yourself might seem selfish, it is actually vital for the health of your business. Ultimately it’s all about balance!
Here is a great link if you are feeling the pressure and you’re looking for some ideas on how to reduce your anxiety.